Advice for Grad School from AboutToBeDr
This post is from an awesome amazing graduate student woman of color. She is successfully navigating graduate school, and is almost done with her thesis. I asked her to share her wisdom for future, new, and current graduate students. Remember, you can follow this blog by clicking the +Follow button. You can also lead this blog by posting comments and your own posts, like this one. Enjoy!
Entering my first year of graduate school I knew that it was going to be different from my undergraduate experience, but I really had no idea what I was getting into. There isn’t a “Graduate School 101” course to take to learn the ins and outs of this academic journey. Here are 10 tips and wisdom that I have acquired going through my Ph.D. program.
- Forget about imposter syndrome. This is better known as the “I am stupid and I do not deserve to be here” feeling. Many underrepresented minorities and women especially experience this feeling throughout their graduate school career. Your admittance into the program was not by mistake. You have earned where you are and though there are times where you will feel like you do not belong, just know that you do.
- Pick a supportive advisor. Picking an advisor is one of the most important decisions you will ever make in graduate school. It really is a “match-making” experience. They have expectations of you and you have expectation of them. This person should care about your overall career goals and help you along the way to achieve them. For example, my advisor understands my need for structured independence. He empowers me to take control of my project and teaches the other graduate students and me to be confident in our work. I honestly believe I hit the jackpot in finding my advisor because we work well and understand each other. The relationship between advisor and advisee evolves along the way in graduate school. So choose with your gut and if you feel like something is off with a particular person trust it.
- Surround yourself with mentor(s) from different fields of study. Your advisor can be your mentor, but should not be your only mentor. I personally have about three mentors who help me with various situations. For science and career advice I usually contact my undergraduate advisor. For navigating life as a female of color, I have a former sociology professor I have known since I was 18. You get the idea. Each mentor knows different part of my life and they help me navigate my present dilemma or triumphs.
- Do well in your classes. Just because you have your Bachelors in whatever field you are going to graduate school for does not mean you are an expert. Study! Graduate school teaches you to think more in-depth about a subject. It is an overall training to become a critical thinker. College was about scratching the surface of your desired subject and graduate school will be a full immersion process.
- Be humble and open to new experiences. You will learn how to think and approach situations differently. Learning is a collaborative process and with this collaboration, respect for others is essential. In summary, do not be a “know-it-all” and shut people out.
- Take care of yourself. Take a break everyday to do something you love other than your studies. Sometimes stepping away from something for even an hour can give you a new set of eyes the next time around.
- Every opportunity is a networking opportunity. Talk to a faculty member or a student you do not know at a seminar or a department gathering. Go to conferences and make it a goal to introduce yourself to someone prominent in your field. You never know if that conversation would turn into an opportunity for future employment or collaboration.
- Be involved on your campus and/or in your department. Taking a leadership role in your department or on campus can be beneficial in your own social life personally and for your career. Personally, if you are organizing gatherings for graduate students you will interact with people who are going through the same process as you. This can be rather comforting and supportive during rough times. Career-wise if you are organizing something like a departmental seminar series with other students you will interact with people in various fields and this could lead to future opportunities.
- Swallow your pride and ask for help. I say this because I use to be the person that would try to learn at other people’s pace. When I did not understand the material right away, I would be too embarrassed to ask questions and I would not learn it. This was detrimental to my learning process and resulted in failing my first class in graduate school. Ask as many questions as you can and do not be afraid to have meetings with professors outside of class to go over material. Study groups with other students in your class are also very helpful. Make a habit of swallowing your pride and admitting when you do not understand something.
- You are not alone. Graduate school is an emotional rollercoaster and more of an endurance race than anything. The people before you and certainly after you will experience the same ups and downs. Have a positive outlet or someone who will share in your achievements and your failures.
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